《家庭教育光有爱还不够》内容简介
明明有爱,但看不到爱?家长总是在管教、约束、指责、催促、鞭策。孩子只是觉得压抑,内心产生抗拒,却得不到来自父母的帮助,只能委屈、怨恨,或者沉默反抗。
黄启团已有二十多年的心理咨询经验,专注于心理学应用的教育传播,具备将心理学理论成功运用于亲子教育领域的经验。
《家庭教育光有爱还不够》提出了四大教养模式、五大心理营养、敏感化与复原力等观点和操作方式,探讨了家庭教育的多个方面,包括采用高压打骂和全然爱与自由两种教育方式对孩子的影响;知识的重要性以及运用知识的能力;孩子成长过程中情绪控制的四个阶段;情商在孩子教育中的重要性;限制性信念和共情能力;培养孩子的善良品质和正确的价值观;如何避免孩子产生“无望”观念;等等。
本书有助于解决家庭教育中儿童性格和行为问题,给家长提供了孩子成长的规律和常识,让孩子的前途因为有家长的学习而变得更加美好。
作者简介
黄启团
资深心理学导师,应用心理学实践者,心理作家。27年专注于心理学应用的教育传播,已培养1200多位应用心理学导师,课堂学员超过10万人。融合自己的生命体验将心理学理论成功运用于家庭教育、企业经营管理、婚姻等领域。
用有趣、有爱、实用的表达方式为社会、组织以及每一个人提供有价值的心理学服务。
"Family education alone love is not enough" content introduction
There's love, but there's no love? Parents are always in discipline, discipline, blame, urge, spur. Children just feel depressed, inner resistance, but can not get help from parents, only grievances, resentment, or silent resistance.
Huang Qituan has more than 20 years of experience in psychological counseling, focusing on the educational dissemination of psychological applications, and has experience in successfully applying psychological theories to the field of parent-child education.
"Family education alone love is not Enough" put forward four parenting models, five psychological nutrition, sensitization and resilience and other viewpoints and operational methods, explore many aspects of family education, including the use of high pressure beating and scolding and total love and freedom of the two education methods on children; The importance of knowledge and the ability to use it; The four stages of emotional control in a child's development; The importance of emotional intelligence in children's education; Limiting beliefs and empathy; Cultivate children's good character and correct values; How to prevent children from having "hopeless" ideas; Let's wait.
This book helps to solve the problems of children's character and behavior in family education, provides parents with the rules and common sense of children's growth, and makes the future of children become better because of the study of parents.
About the author
Huang Qituan
Senior psychology instructor, applied psychology practitioner, psychology writer. Over the past 27 years, it has focused on the educational dissemination of applied psychology, and has trained more than 1,200 applied psychology tutors and more than 100,000 classroom students. Integrating my own life experience, I have successfully applied psychological theories to family education, business management, marriage and other fields.
To provide valuable psychological services to society, organizations and everyone in an interesting, loving and practical way of expression.