《人间清醒恋爱指南》内容简介
那些爱里吃的苦,我希望你清楚
恋爱重要吗?
比起亟待解决的现实问题,恋爱好像不重要。
恋爱不重要吗?
年少时未宣之于口的悸动,成年后爱过却未得善终的恋情。
偶然间于繁重的学业或工作中抬头,有回忆的风扑面,带着氤氲水汽,裹挟着旧时的爱意降临。
那一瞬,仿佛跌入时空缝隙。
爱重要吗?
爱是永不熄灭的焰火,是平凡生活里的英雄梦想。
谁能忍心劝你,不要经历?
《人间清醒恋爱指南》不想教你如何卑躬屈膝乞求喜爱;
只想教你看清自己,爱你自己。
不想教你如何高攀或低就;
只想教你握住合适的人,不要因为本不重要的事遗憾错过。
不想让你的生活充满狗血的猜忌;
只想帮你梳理矛盾、解决问题。
不打算劝你全身心投入,失去自己;
只想告诉你,无论是破裂、挽回,还是有人留下伤痕离去,你都要保护好自己,然后再次勇敢出发!
作者简介
扎南
已经情感自由的独立咨询师,心理公司创始人。
风格:中立、清醒而理性。
专注分享让读者心理更自洽的底层逻辑。
A guide to sober love on Earth
The pain of love, I hope you know
Is it important to be in love?
Being in love seems unimportant compared to the real problems that need to be solved.
Isn't love important?
The unspoken throb of youth, the love of adulthood but not a happy ending.
Occasionally in the heavy study or work, there are memories of the wind blowing on the face, with dense water vapor, with the old love came.
That moment, as if falling into the space and time gap.
Is love important?
Love is a flame that never goes out, a heroic dream of ordinary life.
Who can tell you not to go through this?
The Human Guide to Sober Love doesn't want to teach you how to grovel for affection;
Just want to teach you to see yourself, love yourself.
Don't want to teach you how to climb high or low;
Just want to teach you to hold the right person, not because of the unimportant things regret to miss.
Don't want to fill your life with dog-blood suspicion;
I just want to help you sort out conflicts and solve problems.
I'm not going to persuade you to throw yourself into it and lose yourself;
Just want to tell you, whether it is broken, redeemed, or someone left scars, you have to protect yourself, and then brave to start again!
About the author
Zanan
Already emotionally free independent counselor, founder of a psychology company.
Style: Neutral, sober and rational.
Focus on sharing the underlying logic that makes the reader's mind more consistent.